ROYAL TEA PARTY
Just like Anna the Duchess of Bedford did when hosting the rst afternoon tea,
it’s important to use proper etiquette and keep these rules in mind
WHAT TO WEAR
A tea party held in the garden
will have a more casual look
than one held indoors. A bow
tie for men is seen as part of
the dress code. Men also wear
straw hats, especially to an
outdoor gathering. Hats and
gloves for ladies are part of
the costume when attending
a formal tea party.
SERVING TEA
Once everyone is seated,
the hostess pours the tea
and always ensures that
each guest’s cup is full. The
milk goes first into the
cups, then the sugar cubes.
Close friends or the hostess
does the pouring of the tea,
but, you can offer to help if
someone needs a break.
MANNERS
Make sure to place your
napkin on your lap and not on
the table. Watch your hostess
for signals on when to eat
when she lays her napkin on
her lap, and signaling the end,
by picking up her napkin and
placing it on the table. Never
hold your cup with your
pinkie finger extended. If
seated at a table, do not lift the
saucer (this is only proper if
standing; then lift the saucer
with the cup). Leave your
napkin on the chair, not the
table, if you must leave the
table. When you are ready to
leave, you simply thank your
host and say goodbye to the
guest of honor.
